Celebration with Weston 2007
We have good news Weston contacted
me after 5 years
of Alienation
insisted that he be able to talk & see his Dad, that day finally came
right before Christmas 2006 ! Many truths were explained, letters,
things he did not know about his Dad. He stayed here with us for 6
months & went back to Texas to finish school for the 2007 year, many
more things to say but we are just grateful now we have a relationship
again without the interruption of another party. Weston is a wonderful
Son he is a talented musician.... like father like son......and wants to
go to audio school & be an audio recording engineer. We talk daily what
a great feeling, many of you fathers don't give up hope your miracle is
around the corner I give God all the glory for answering my prayers.
Tony Ray or Weston's Dad
A
Father's Love
This page is info about Dads & sons and my personal story
about my son Stance Weston Jones
Dedicated to my son Stance Weston Jones
Please if you have a chance to read my new page about
my Son Weston, please pass on this to someone who is without a Father
or a Father without his Children. It's a personal story but I decided to
go ahead and release it on my web site maybe someone else can be helped
in some way. this is my way of trying to make contact with my Son Weston
maybe the Internet could be a way to pass this along.
Thank you Tony Ray
Now 15yrs old and
was last seen in the yr 2001 in Austin TX. Not able to see him had been
due to many factors which includes moving out of state, manipulation,
alienation, lies, inadequate court systems and those who know how to use
it to their advantage. I have never stopped loving him or wanting to see
him.
I am a strong
advocate of Fathers Rights and like many fathers we are not perfect but
the same stands for mothers. It’s unfortunate that the courts do not
recognize changes and growth in people and their systems. It more
unfortunate that they forget about the child's well being and how it must
feel for them to be told their dad doesn’t care about them etc.
Historically they are programmed to view the women as the victim
regardless of the circumstances. Fathers Rights has made a change,
awareness & support towards the empowerment for dads. Most of all, hope
and a sense of unity that they are not alone.
I have tried many
times to be in my son’s life and at the same time that’s how many times I
have given up. I’ve tried doing it the right way … and the wrong way. I
have a briefcase of letters, cards & pictures that have never been open in
addition to certified mail receipts in hopes that they would not be
intercepted by someone in his household.
I still continue to
promote Fathers Rights but had to come to peace with myself that I have
been beaten once again by the courts and PAS. (Parental Alienation
Syndrome)
I haven’t and won’t
give up on ever seeing Weston again. However, my strategy has changed.
It’s now in the hands of God and a teenage son who may someday seek to
find his dad. I have no faith in the court system, financially its money
thrown away that I don’t have.
“And we know that all things
work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called
according to his purpose” (Rom. 8:28 KJV).
This page is my way
of reaching out to Weston in hopes some day he will be curious to know
about his dad and how he really feels about him.
Weston I love
you, I have not abandoned you, I have always loved you. Not a day goes
by that I don’t think of you and wonder how you are, what you are doing
and how much you have grown. As time passes you may someday seek the truth
of what really happened during your youth. I have movies and pictures of
us laughing, having fun but I’m certain its been overpowered by pictures
planted in your brain with untrue visions.
I’m sharing this story to those who need to
remember this is not about bad marriages…verbal abuse, poor relationships
etc. This is about any parent who can identify with a similar scenario.
In addition it’s about all children who are manipulated and controlled by
a primary/custodial parent. Who are only told one-sided stories to be
the “appealing” parent. Who makes the other parent look bad to make
them look good. Who knows the strengths and many weaknesses in the court
systems and uses it to their advantage.
What really matter's...?
“Its about the children and the
reinforcement that they are loved… by both parents”
No child should be told they are
not loved… that is what should be a crime!
A few photo's of Dad & Weston over the years.
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Dad & Weston about age 3 in Tenn taken at Walmart Photo shop
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Baseball Team The Bears pic in Austin TX 2002
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Taken in Waynesboro MS, at his Great Grand Pa's grave site Weston was named after him.Weston was around 10 months in this photo.
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Dad & Weston at my friend John Barner's Studio in Murfreesboro, TN around 1992
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Taken at Chuckie Cheese in Nashville 1995
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Sleepy Little boy was helping Dad around the house, just moved into our new house in Nashville 1993 or 94
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A big bundle of joy ain't he cute!
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Weston caught his first fish at Cedar Creek Ranch in Lucedale , MS.
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Weston's first day home after he was born Feb 27th 1992 in Nashville TN
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Dad teaching Weston how to shoot the Marlin 22 cal.
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Taken in Murfreesboro, TN at the battle grounds.
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Riding trying to be kewl !
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Dad & Buckaboo I call him, just having a Dad & son moment.
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Dad's little helper painting at our new house in Nashville, TN 1993 or 94
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Here are some
excellent links for dads and in some cases moms who may feel the value of
information that may apply to them.
www.tndads.org
www.parental-alienation.com
www.innocentdads.org
www.deltabravo.net/custody/malice.php
www.mall4us.com/paslinks.htm
www.innocentdads.org/kjwagner.
Articles & Research
Parental Alienation Syndrome: How to Detect It and What to Do About It
by J. Michael Bone and Michael R. Walsh
Parental Alienation Syndrome: An Age-Old Custody Problem
by Michael R. Walsh and J. Michael Bone
Parental Alienation Syndrome Passes the Frye Test
by J. Michael Bone, Ph.D
Parental Alienation Syndrome: Examining the
Validity Amid Controversy
by J. Michael Bone, Ph.D
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